Men and women are two pieces of a whole. So instead of wasting your time arguing, try to understand each other. Try to put yourself in the other's shoes. Try to see things from the man's perspective. Try to see things from the woman's perspective. And four eyes are always better than two. You have a complete vision. All four directions are available to you.
Love bridges the man and the woman, and a new person appears, who is neither a man nor a woman. The true couple is not a couple at all, because they are not two, so how can they be a couple?
The true couple is a unity, a new person, who has two hearts, two bodies, but one soul. And this is not only between the man and the woman. Love helps bridge all polarities.