Both the man and the woman must discover within the Christian marriage the power of sacrifice and love that does not seek reciprocity, as well as the fact that submission is not an act of servitude but an act of a dynamic journey towards the inner self, upwards, and towards the other.

Depending on the humility one acquires, one understands the poverty of their life without it. The fundamental link, the basic interpretative key to human relationships is to understand why one is in a relationship and to what extent they grasp the perspective of Christian marriage.

Existentialist philosophers argued that "the other is my hell." In faith, we say "the other is my salvation."