An innovative approach to parenting by nationally recognized educator Alfie Kohn, offering parents “powerful alternatives to help children become their most diligent and responsible selves.” Instead of asking, “How can we make children do what we tell them?”, this groundbreaking book begins with the question, “What do children need – and how can we meet those needs?”.

Kohn argues that a fundamental need of all children is to be loved unconditionally, to know they will be accepted even if they fail or do not meet our expectations. However, conventional approaches, like punishments and rewards, teach children that they are only loved when they satisfy us. Studies show that this perception can cause harm to children.

More than just another book on discipline, the unconditional parenting proposed by Kohn, examines the thoughts, feelings, and actions of parents with their children. It invites parents to challenge their basic assumptions about parenting, while offering a wealth of practical strategies to shift from “doing” to “collaborating” with their children. This is an enlightening and subversive edition that will reconnect readers with their best instincts and inspire them to become better parents.

Pages: 272, Year of Publication: 0503, Dimensions: 14x14cm