Many of us enter romantic relationships full of expectations and hope, only to be disappointed by the reality that the partner we chose is a flawed person with their own neuroses, history, and desires. Most relationships end because one or both individuals have not done the internal work required to develop self-awareness and take responsibility for their experiences. We've all heard that "you can't love anyone if you don't love yourself," but amidst the distractions of life and the myth of perfect romantic love, how do you achieve this? In "Brave, Deep, Intimate," psychologist and relationship expert Alexandra H. Solomon introduces the concept of relational self-awareness, encouraging you to explore your personal story to understand your own relationship patterns, as well as your strengths and weaknesses in relationships. By doing so, you will learn what relationships truly require, beyond the fairy-tale notions of romance. By maintaining a steady yet gentle focus on yourself, you will build the best possible foundation for making a loving connection. By understanding your past relationship experiences, cultivating a strong sense of self-awareness, and defining exactly what you want from a romantic partner, you will be ready to find the healthy and lasting love your heart desires.