On Thursday, October 24, 1963, at four in the afternoon, I was in my room at the Minerva Hotel in Rome. I was flying back the next day and was organizing my papers when the phone rang. It was Bost from Paris: "An accident happened to your mother," he told me. I thought she had been hit by a car. She was having difficulty climbing onto the sidewalk, and only with the help of her cane, so she must have been hit by a car. "She fell in the bathroom and broke her hip," Bost, who lived in the same apartment building, told me. The previous day, around ten in the evening, as she was climbing the stairs with Olga, he had seen three people on the stairs ahead of him, a woman and two policemen. "She is on the second floor, on the mezzanine," the woman was telling them. Had something happened to Mrs. Beauvoir? Indeed. She had fallen. She had been crawling on the floor for two whole hours before managing to reach the phone; she asked a friend of hers, Mrs. Tardier, to break down the door. Bost and Olga accompanied the other three to the apartment door. They found mom lying on the floor, dressed in her red corduroy velvet robe. Mrs. Lacroix, the doctor who lived in the same apartment building, diagnosed a hip fracture.
We do not die because we were once born, nor because we lived, nor from old age. We die for a reason. The fact that I knew my mother’s end, due to age, was near did not lessen the pain or the intensity of the terrible surprise: she had sarcoma. A cancer, a cardiac arrest, a pulmonary embolism are as violent as the stopping of an airplane engine in flight.
The case of my mother called us to be optimistic, since, although helpless, motionless, and dying, she assured us that every minute of life is priceless… Simone de Beauvoir wrote nothing more moving than this chronicle of her mother’s death.
The anguish of the last days, the clinical humiliations of a proud woman, the unexpected flashes of love and hostility in moments of calm and delirium, all are expressed with a relentless honesty, but also with the deep humanity that characterizes the great French writer.
The deeply moving, day by day, account of her mother’s death reveals the power of compassion when it allies with acute intelligence. Beauvoir, without reservation in depicting the inevitable encounter of a human being with oblivion, demonstrates the tragedy of the human condition through a specific case. Desperate yet liberating at the same time.
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On Thursday, October 24, 1963, at four in the afternoon, I was in my room at the Minerva Hotel in Rome. I was flying back the next day and was organizing my papers when the phone rang. It was Bost from Paris: "An accident happened to your mother," he told me. I thought she had been hit by a car. She was having difficulty climbing onto the sidewalk, and only with the help of her cane, so she must have been hit by a car. "She fell in the bathroom and broke her hip," Bost, who lived in the same apartment building, told me. The previous day, around ten in the evening, as she was climbing the stairs with Olga, he had seen three people on the stairs ahead of him, a woman and two policemen. "She is on the second floor, on the mezzanine," the woman was telling them. Had something happened to Mrs. Beauvoir? Indeed. She had fallen. She had been crawling on the floor for two whole hours before managing to reach the phone; she asked a friend of hers, Mrs. Tardier, to break down the door. Bost and Olga accompanied the other three to the apartment door. They found mom lying on the floor, dressed in her red corduroy velvet robe. Mrs. Lacroix, the doctor who lived in the same apartment building, diagnosed a hip fracture.
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- Author
- Simone de Beauvoir
- Publisher
- Metaichmio
- Type
- Prose
- Cover
- Soft
- Number of Pages
- 136
- Release Date
- 2/2023
- Publication Date
- 2023
- Dimensions
- 14x20.5 cm
- ISBN-13
- 9786180332377
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