Since the day we were born, we've been told lies. That women only want relationships and men only want sex. That if women want sex, they are sluts. That if men want tenderness, they are not man enough. That there is a battle between the sexes and we are in opposing camps. That someone has to be on top, otherwise, they will be a loser. And that we are not allowed to ask for more. Even though we have endless choices, and we know that with a swipe we can move on to the next person through dating apps. We didn't dare to ask for more because no one was listening to us.
And yet. Now dating is changing. Many women have already realized. The old rules no longer apply, what we knew was wrong and we need to learn it again. To see relationships between the sexes from a different perspective. With genuine curiosity. With honesty. With kindness. With respect. With a disposition for laughter, fun, and play. Everything is here. You will understand exactly what things you have been hearing for a long time mean, and you will learn new concepts that describe dating as it is today. From sexist jokes to rape culture, from the Friend Zone to Nice Guys, from flirting to harassment, from sex to consent, and from pleasure to the orgasmic gap. Dating has changed and we are swimming in uncharted waters. You are holding the guide in your hands.
