More and more queer and non-queer couples are deciding to live and become parents together. But who stays with whom? How do you manage raising children? How do you organize the home/finances/bathrooms? Laura Boyle, having interviewed over four hundred people living in every polyamorous arrangement, has the answers for you. Forget the guides on jealousy and New Relationship Energy - this wise and practical guide deals with the essence of permanent living in polyamorous households.