I'll tell you simply and humanly, at my own spiritual level which is low and earthly, because I am tired of high analyses. Don’t expect life to ask you if and how much you can bear. It will never happen. Don’t wait for the perfect conditions to say "I will live." Live today. Don’t wait to find the perfect father or mother so that you won't have traumas. Don’t wait to find the perfect spouse, because you simply will never find them. Don’t wait to have perfect children, because they simply do not exist. Don’t wait to meet perfect friends, because you are not one either. Don’t wait to work in the ideal job, because you will simply remain unemployed. Don’t expect to see God as a "being" who descends from the heavens in the form of a Hollywood movie. It will just never happen, and you will miss the chance to meet Him in your daily life. Don’t wait to have the perfect company to go for a walk. Start even if alone. Along the way, you will meet fellow travelers.