It becomes obvious that a person's narcissism develops great attraction to those who have been freed from any trace of narcissism and are in search of a love object. The charm of a child is largely based on their narcissism, on the fact that they are self-sufficient, that they are inaccessible. Similarly, the charm of certain animals that seem not to care about us, such as cats and large hunting animals, even the great criminal and the humorist, arouse our interest when they are depicted in poetry, because of this consistent narcissism they know how to display, keeping at a distance from their ego anything that would diminish it.